One of my ranting verses, loosely inspired by this story hich made the regional press throughout the north-west this week. [ Oh and also inspired by the song by the mighty Half Man Half Biscuit, ‘Fun Day in the Park’].
Fun Day at the Seaside!
My nephew saw it advertised on the internet,
“Junior footy tournament, our biggest event yet –
Tourneys for all age-groups, on Saturday and Sunday”
And why not stay over for a seaside holiday Monday?
“Something for all the family, it’s not just the football:
Face-painting, mask-making, tournament souvenir stall,
Tournament film or photo service, reasonable fees,
We’ve got discounts for campsites or local B & B’s;
Ice creams, balloons, hamburgers and hot dogs,
Beat the goalie, bouncy castle, photos with our mascots.
All this, and much, much more – you’ll be surprised.”
Nephew was insistent, we called his club, got organised
His team had never been to a big tournament before
So we forgot to ask about the “much, much more”.
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The sun shone bright, as did some skilful girls and boys
A few parents on the touchlines made encouraging noise.
Impressive was the spirit from all our little fellas.
But oppressive was the spirit from a few other yellers.
“Get stuck in Josh, d’you wanna win Josh? Josh get in his face!
Josh be a man, he’ll bottle it, if you don’t give him no space.
Josh just boot it up the field, anywhere near our Ryan –
He’s just a better player, i’n’e? And is Josh even tryin’?”
These were the parents of ten year-olds, no older
I bet kids’ games don’t sound like this at FC Barcelona.
And then, in the quarter finals, one incident I saw
Was what made me wonder ‘bout the “much, much more”.
Much, much more getting in the ref’s face
Much, much more calling her “a disgrace”.
Much, much more swearing at this teenage ref,
Much, much more calling her “blind and deaf.”
‘Cos she wouldn’t listen when your lad went down
With his much, much more diving and rolling around.
Much, much more running onto the pitch
Much, much more calling the ref a b*tch.
And, as the opposite touchline shouted you down,
Much, much more insulting about their rival town.
At my nephew ‘s first tournament, this was what we saw
Ref in tears, match abandoned – much, much more.
I had to wonder who was much, much more mature-
Them, or the kids that they were shouting for?
They were much, much more judgemental
Much, much less gentle, distinctly un-parental,
I could see the damn mental in their fundamental,
But where was the fun, which should be central?
It ain’t necessarily so, folks, it ain’t necessarily so.
Things that you’re liable to think won’t be tribal,
It ain’t necessarily so.